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This very significant Passover occurred during the last reformation of the Kingdom of Judah, ignited during a very dangerous time by King Josiah, who began his reign when he was just a boy.
A Christian woman should be seeking to develop the qualities of becoming a Biblically excellent wife and should be seeking a Christian man who is developing the qualities of a Christian husband who will love his wife as Christ loved the church.
This should be done before you consider marriage with someone.
Finally, is there an affection for this person in my heart and mind based on the way God has defined biblical manhood and womanhood?
This is (hopefully) a much deeper and godlier assessment then simply asking, "Am I physically attracted to him or her? " If you get through all that soul-searching, you may decide (probably separately at this point) that marriage between the two of you is the right thing before the Lord.