I asked this client what made this email exchange different from the other exchanges. I mean, from the majority of your emails, you sound really boring, too.
That doesn't always mean you're incompatible — just that we are humans, and dating can be awkward.Humor and teasers such as "I have a very unusual pet" or "My hair color changes with the phases of the moon" invite potential dates to engage in conversation.Your online conversation will flow better and net more information about your date if you ask open-ended questions, such as what are your date’s best talents and skills or what super power she would most want.He asked her a silly question and started grilling her with more and more trivia questions, teasing her about what she might win if she got all the questions right. “It made me funny in response to him,” she replied. They’re just as boring as the ones that you received.She played along and pushed right back and they’ve already got a first date lined up. “He was so lively and engaging that I sort of had no choice but to come back with something equally witty and creative.” “So by him writing something playful and interesting to you, he actually brought out a more playful and interesting side of you? Wouldn’t it stand to reason that if you took the time to write something interesting and creative back to these guys, you might discover that they actually have a personality?