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If dating is a game, then just like any other game, there are rules you need to study, learn and follow. Yes, finding your soul mate is serious business, and it can sometimes even be a scary endeavor, but keep in mind that this is supposed to be fun. If you don't want to go on another date with someone, let them down as gently -- but firmly -- as possible. Do date only people you're attracted to, no matter what your friends say. Surround yourself with positive people who are rooting for you to succeed at love and will be there for you if/when you need emotional support. Don't call, text message or email someone you've just started seeing more than once a day unless they reply (or in the event of an emergency). Many of us are attracted to people who are bad for us, but it's important to break these patterns and seek out healthy relationships with matches who won't demean you or make you feel bad about yourself in any way. Don't be scared to open up, but remember that getting to know someone takes time, and you should let your relationship evolve. Don't check out other people when you're on a date. Extend your partner the courtesy of concentrating solely on them while you're with them. Go out and find someone who's emotionally (and legally) available to you!